Category: God’s Will
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How Do I Know What God Wants Me to Do?
HOW DO I KNOW WHAT GOD WANTS ME TO DO?
One of the most common questions Christians ask is, “How do I know what God wants me to do?” We want God’s direction in relationships, careers, ministry, finances, major decisions, and everyday life. The good news is that God wants to guide His children.
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.” (Psalm 32:8 ESV)
But receiving God’s guidance requires humility:
“He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble his way.” (Psalm 25:9 ESV)
One of the dangers is making our plans first and asking God to bless them afterward. God warned Israel:
“Ah, stubborn children,” declares the LORD, “who carry out a plan, but not mine… who set out to go down to Egypt, without asking for my direction.” (Isaiah 30:1–2 ESV)
Notice the problem: they made their plans without consulting God. When seeking God’s guidance, I have found it helpful to remember that His direction often comes to us in three simple ways: GO — YES, NO — STOP, and SLOW — WAIT.
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GO — YES. God opens the way and gives us freedom to move forward.
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NO — STOP. God closes the door, redirects us, or shows us that what we desire is not His will.
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SLOW — WAIT. Sometimes God isn’t saying no. He is saying, “Not yet.” Waiting is not the absence of God’s guidance. Sometimes waiting is God’s guidance.
So how do we discern whether God is saying GO, NO, or SLOW? Here are five biblical principles.
#1: COMMANDING SCRIPTURE
Start with what God has already said.
“But first let’s find out what the LORD says.” (1 Kings 22:5 NLT)
Before looking for signs, feelings, impressions, or open doors, go to Scripture. God will never guide you to do something that contradicts what He has already commanded in His Word. You don’t need a sign about something God has clearly addressed.
If Scripture says yes, you don’t need to pray about whether obedience is necessary. If Scripture says no, you don’t need to look for circumstances that will give you permission to say yes. God’s Word is our first and final authority.
#2: COMPELLING SPIRIT
Pay attention to the leading of the Holy Spirit.
Paul said, “And now, behold, I am going to Jerusalem, constrained by the Spirit…” (Acts 20:22 ESV)
At another time, Paul and his companions wanted to travel into Bithynia: “…they attempted to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them.” (Acts 16:7 ESV)
In one situation, the Spirit was saying GO. In another, the Spirit was saying NO. There will also be seasons when the Spirit seems to say SLOW — WAIT. As believers, we should learn to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s direction. This may involve conviction, a persistent burden, an unusual sense of restraint, or a growing clarity about what we should do.
But there is an important safeguard: the Holy Spirit will never contradict the Holy Scriptures. We should always test what we believe the Spirit is saying against what God has already revealed in His Word.
#3: COMMON SENSE
Sometimes Christians make God’s guidance unnecessarily mysterious. God has given us a mind, wisdom, experience, knowledge, and the ability to think.
“The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps.” (Proverbs 14:15 ESV)
“The wisdom of the prudent is to discern his way…” (Proverbs 14:8 ESV)
Jesus even spoke about carefully considering a decision: “For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost…?” (Luke 14:28 ESV)
Sometimes the spiritual thing to do is stop, think, gather the facts, count the cost, and make a wise decision. God’s guidance does not normally require us to abandon the wisdom and good judgment He has given us.
Ask practical questions: Is this wise? Is this responsible? Have I thought through the consequences? Am I ignoring something obvious because I desperately want a particular answer? God can guide us through sanctified common sense.
#4: COUNSEL OF MATURE CHRISTIANS
Don’t make major decisions in isolation.
“…but a wise man listens to advice.” (Proverbs 12:15 ESV)
“Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” (Proverbs 15:22 ESV)
Seek the counsel of mature Christians who know God, know Scripture, and know you. But be careful not to simply collect opinions until you find someone who agrees with you.
Paul warned, “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth…” (2 Timothy 4:3–4 ESV)
Good counsel isn’t always the counsel we want to hear. Find people who love you enough to tell you the truth, even when the truth challenges your plans.
#5: CIRCUMSTANTIAL SIGNS
Finally, pay attention to what God is doing around you. Sometimes God opens doors:
“For a wide door for effective work has opened to me, and there are many adversaries.” (1 Corinthians 16:9 ESV)
Sometimes He closes doors: “…they attempted to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them.” (Acts 16:7 ESV)
But we need to be careful here. An open door doesn’t automatically mean GO, and a difficult road doesn’t automatically mean NO.
Paul once wrote, “When I came to Troas to preach the gospel of Christ, even though a door was opened for me in the Lord, my spirit was not at rest because I did not find my brother Titus there. So I took leave of them and went on to Macedonia.” (2 Corinthians 2:12–13 ESV)
That’s remarkable. Paul had an open door—and didn’t walk through it. Circumstances matter, but circumstances should generally confirm God’s guidance rather than control God’s guidance.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
When you’re trying to determine God’s direction, don’t build your decision on one feeling, one coincidence, or one person’s opinion. Bring these things together:
Commanding Scripture: What has God already said?
Compelling Spirit: How does the Holy Spirit appear to be leading?
Common Sense: What does wisdom tell me?
Counsel of Mature Christians: What are godly, trustworthy believers telling me?
Circumstantial Signs: What doors does God appear to be opening or closing?
Then remember the three ways God often directs us. GO — Sometimes God says YES. Move forward in faith and obedience. NO — Sometimes God says STOP. Trust that God’s “no” may be His protection or redirection. SLOW — Sometimes God says WAIT. Don’t force a door God hasn’t opened yet.
Waiting can be the hardest answer because we would often rather hear yes or no than not yet. But God’s delays are not necessarily God’s denials.
Ultimately, knowing God’s will isn’t merely about discovering the right answer. It’s about knowing, trusting, and walking with God. Whatever His answer—GO, NO, or SLOW—our responsibility remains the same: trust Him and follow Him..
Bible References: Psalm 32:8 (ESV); Psalm 25:9 (ESV); Isaiah 30:1–2 (ESV); 1 Kings 22:5 (ESV); Acts 20:22 (ESV); Acts 16:7 (ESV); Proverbs 14:8, 15 (ESV); Luke 14:28 (ESV); Proverbs 12:15 (ESV); Proverbs 15:22 (ESV); 2 Timothy 4:3–4 (ESV); 1 Corinthians 16:9 (ESV); 2 Corinthians 2:12–13 (ESV)
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IF GOD KNOWS AND SEES EVERYTHING, WHY SHOULD WE PRAY?
IF GOD KNOWS AND SEES EVERYTHING, WHY SHOULD WE PRAY?
If God knows everything and is all-powerful, then when a prayer is answered, was it really answered—or did we simply pray for what was already God’s will? Put another way: if God already knows, why are we praying at all?
Jesus gave us the Lord’s Prayer, and we pray it because He taught us to pray that way. Through prayer, God invites us into His story, His life, and His world.
PRAYER IS NOT AN ATTEMPT TO CHANGE GOD
We often begin with the wrong idea of prayer. Prayer is not an attempt to change God or manipulate Him into doing what we want. It is not asking God to step onto our stage, where we are the main character and He plays a supporting role.
Prayer invites us to step off our stage and enter God’s story, where He is the center. Prayer transforms us. It draws us from God, make this happen toward Father, not my will, but Your will be done.
That is where peace begins to settle into our prayer life. We remember that God is good, powerful, wise, and loving. He wastes nothing. Even when His first answer and His final answer are not what we wanted, we can say, I trust You, God. That is not a flippant statement; many believers have learned it while walking through the darkest seasons of life.
PRAYER IS WORSHIP AND ALIGNMENT
Prayer is first and foremost worship. Jesus taught us to begin, “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.” Prayer aligns our lives with God’s purposes: “Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”
Prayer is not merely submitting a wish list. Prayer is submitting myself to God. Yes, I have a prayer list, but the prayer beneath every request is, Father, not as I will, but as You will.
JESUS PRAYED, ‘YOUR WILL BE DONE’
Before His crucifixion, Jesus prayed in the garden, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” Some Christians have told me that this is not a faith-filled prayer. But if Jesus prayed it, and Jesus is God and is perfect, then I am safe praying His prayer.
Jesus honestly expressed His desire to be spared the suffering of the cross, yet He entrusted Himself to the Father’s will. There is tremendous peace, power, rest, and freedom when we stop wrestling with God and simply say, Not my will, but Your will be done.
Prayer exposes the illusion that we are in control. We think we are in control, but that is a mirage. God is in control. Prayer is not our way of seizing control from Him; it is the place where we gladly surrender control to the One who knows, loves, and rules perfectly.
Bible References: Matthew 6:9-10 (ESV); Matthew 26:36-44 (ESV)
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IS GOD OUR CONSCIENCE? HOW DO WE KNOW WHEN GOD IS SPEAKING?
IS GOD OUR CONSCIENCE? HOW DO WE KNOW WHEN GOD IS SPEAKING?
Is God our conscience? The short answer is no. God is not your conscience, although the Holy Spirit can use your conscience.
Your conscience is like a GPS or a tuning fork. It is a God-given capacity for self-evaluation and moral awareness. The New Testament word is syneidēsis, and it describes the inner awareness by which we evaluate whether our actions agree with what we believe is right.
YOUR CONSCIENCE RESPONDS TO YOUR VALUE SYSTEM
Your conscience reacts positively or negatively to your value system. I hope that your value system is shaped by Scripture. When you believe what the Bible teaches but act against it, you experience guilt, anxiety, and inner conflict because your behavior contradicts your convictions.
For example, a person may say that adultery is wrong while committing adultery. That contradiction creates what is often called cognitive dissonance. Eventually, the person must do one of two things: change the behavior to agree with the belief, or change the belief to justify the behavior.
God can use the conscience to help us examine ourselves and bring our lives under Scripture, but not everyone has the same conscience. A conscience shaped by culture, habit, or personal preference will not necessarily give the same guidance as a conscience trained by the Word of God.
THE CONSCIENCE CAN BE TRAINED—OR DAMAGED
The conscience can be trained, but it can also be weakened, numbed, warped, or seared. A person can repeatedly push down the conscience until its warnings are barely heard. This is why the conscience by itself is not an infallible voice from God.
For a follower of Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit uses the Word of God to guide and shape the conscience. Our feelings must be tested by Scripture, because sincerity alone does not guarantee truth.
HOW DO WE HEAR FROM GOD?
The primary way to hear from God is not a psychic hotline, a tarot-card reader, or an attempt to consult the dead. Scripture explicitly warns us against those practices.
The best way to recognize God’s voice is to read the Bible, learn the Bible, and allow the Bible to wash over your mind and heart. As you become familiar with God’s Word, you will increasingly understand His character, His commands, and His wisdom.
Second, become part of a Bible-teaching church that values and faithfully teaches Scripture. Third, build relationships with mature, godly believers who can counsel you through difficult questions. God is not your conscience, but He can form your conscience through His Word, His Spirit, and the wise community of His people.
Bible References: Deuteronomy 18:10-12 (ESV); Romans 2:15 (ESV); 1 Timothy 4:2 (ESV); 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (ESV)
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